- If your parents are helping to finance your day, make sure they give you an exact figure of what they're contributing. This may seem awkward, but it's best to sort out these matters from the outset rather than discovering you've overspent.
- Avoid getting married during peak wedding season. Choosing a midweek date in February will cost you a lot less than a sunny Saturday in the middle of July.
- Stick to the reception size you can afford and don't let the guest list spiral out of control.
- Never accept the first quote you receive, and make sure you approach more than one supplier. That way, you can negotiate with your favourite by showing them what their competitors are charging.
- A wedding planner may seem extravagant but it's actually one of the best ways of controlling your expenditure - you simply hand over your budget and they will allocate what you have.
- Set up a separate savings account at www.weddingmagazine.co.uk/saffron, which enables you to keep track of your spending at the touch of a button.
- Get married abroad. Not only are wedding suppliers overseas often cheaper, but you'll also cut back on the guest list.
- Extend your engagement. Having more time to plan the wedding gives you a better chance of getting the suppliers you want within your price range.
- Don't invite children. It may sound harsh, but their parents may well be thankful for the opportunity to let their hair down, and you'll save yourself the cost of their meals.
- Go for an ALL-IN-ONE venue. If you can host the ceremony and reception under the same roof, you'll save on transport costs.
- Look for a venue that doesn't need lots of decorative finishing touches - these can quickly add substantially to your costs.
- If you are happy for another wedding to take place at your venue on the same day, you will save yourself a hefty exclusive-use fee.
- Limit the number of bridesmaids and ushers. This will cut down on the cost of outfits, bouquets and buttonholes (and quite possibly stress as well).
- Set up a gift list at www.youbuymywedding.com so guests can make pledges to pay for certain aspects of your big day.
- Safeguard against any unforeseen emergencies by taking out insurance. Good policies will offer £5000 to £30000 worth of cover for between £50 and £300, and is now available as part of the wedding services at John Lewis, Debenhams and Marks & Spencers. You can also arrange it online at www.eandl.co.uk or www.ecclesiastical.com.
Showing posts with label Inspirations. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspirations. Show all posts
Thursday, 7 March 2013
Many basic ways to SAVE - Part 1
Plan the wedding of your dreams breaking the bank...
Sunday, 20 January 2013
Eye Make-Up
I love make-up, make up techniques... love tutorials and photos. And when I run across beautiful photos I like to share them with everyone. I thought I would share here the most popular NEUTRAL looks ...
Saturday, 19 January 2013
Bridal hairstyles
Lots of ideas and inspiration...
On your big day, one of your biggest decisions is your hair! Yes, the venue and food are important, but when you have your bridal moment, you want to look perfect. Whether you decide to have your hair up or down, is all up to you and it will definitely show off your unique, personal style. To help you decide between the two, here is some gorgeous looks...
Friday, 18 January 2013
Wedding to do list...
So many of you have been messaging me regarding doing a post about a wedding to do list or how I have gone about with my own planning.
So here is an explicit guide which helped me...
As soon as possible
- Tell relatives and close friends of your plans
- Announce your engagement in the local paper
- Think about your wedding theme or style
- Set the initial wedding budget and ask relatives if they would like to contribute
- Decide on the number of guests and draw up a guest list with both sets of parents
- Start looking around possible venues
- Choose a date; check this with preferred venue and registrar or celebrant
- Book date with Registrar (for register office or civil venue ceremony)
- Book your venue
- Book caterer if different to your venue
- Sample the menu choices
- Choose your wedding party - best man, bridesmaids, ushers, flower girls, page boys etc
- Book wedding insurance
- Start looking for your wedding dress and attendants’ outfits
- If hiring a wedding co-coordinator do this now
- Choose and book your musicians / entertainment
- Choose and book your photographer / videographer
- Choose and book your florist
- Choose and book your transport
- Select a wedding cake company and order
- Choose and order wedding stationery
- Post your save the date cards
- Select honeymoon destination and book
- Check with Doctor if any vaccinations / medications are required for overseas destinations
- Order stationery and favours (if not already done)
- Choose wedding venue decorations
- Choose shoes, veils, headdresses and any other accessories
- Arrange your wedding gift-list
- Order rings
- Pick up Marriage Notice form from Registrar
- Book hairdresser / beauty therapist / make-up artist
- Arrange for fittings for grooms, ushers, pageboy's etc
- Meet with your minister/priest to discuss the service
- Choose hymns, music and readings for the ceremony
- Send out invitations
- Buy gifts for attendants
- Choose any extra accessories required
- Have a trial make-up / hair-do sitting
- Book your first nights hotel room (if different to reception venue)
- Arrange final fittings for wedding dress/bridesmaids outfits
- Any children should be measured up for hired outfits
- Prepare initial seating plans
- Prepare order of service and order them
- Post invitations and send them along with gift list suggestions
- Send out thank you notes as gifts arrive
- Check the groom and best man have organised their outfits
- Choose presents for your attendants
- Check all travelling documents and requirements
- Choose your eco-friendly confetti petals
- Review seating plans as RSVPs come in
- Inform venue / caterer of final numbers
- Inform stationer of names for place cards and menu details if required
- Keep record of who is giving what gifts (if gift list in place this will be recorded for you)
- Check all dress wear and accessories
- Book hairdresser and make up appointments for the morning of the wedding
- Make sure everyone involved in the wedding knows what is happening and the timings
- Write to banks and official bodies if you are changing your name
- Arrange rehearsal if an option
- Arrange hen/stag parties
- Confirm all arrangements with suppliers
- Make sure all speeches have been prepared
- Try on your full wedding outfit and practice waking in your shoes
- Order travellers cheques and currency for your honeymoon
- Enjoy your hen night ad get your groom to hold his stag night in plenty of time
- Pick up Marriage Schedule or meet with registrar if required
- Ensure best man has rings and cash for services to be paid on the wedding day
- Arrange rehearsal at the ceremony venue if required
- Confirm timings with florist, photographer, transport etc
- Type a list of any must-take shots and send it to your photographer
- Type up favourite music for the DJ/band to play including your first dance song
- Pick up hired dress wear
- Pack over-night stay bags and / or going away bags
- Help decorate the wedding venue
- Arrange for cake to be delivered at the reception venue
- Have a manicure
- Relax and have an early night!
- Give yourself plenty of time to get ready
- Have bouquets and button holes delivered or send someone to collect them
- The mother of the bride and bridesmaids leave first, followed by you and your father (or whoever is giving you away)
- Groom and best man arrive at least 15 minutes before the bride
- The best man is in charge of ensuring everyone has transport between the ceremony and the venue
- Speeches traditionally come after the food and before the coffee, but many people are choosing to do them first, the photographer may stay and take some photos and everyone can relax after the speeches.
- Traditionally the bride and groom leave the reception before all other guests
What an amazing cake...
Happy Friday to all you lovely brides to be...
I was looking for some inspiration to share with you all, and I came across this amazing 'Cinderella' cake created by I Believe It’s Cake
I was looking for some inspiration to share with you all, and I came across this amazing 'Cinderella' cake created by I Believe It’s Cake
Beginning of Romance ...
Today's inspiration is a little bit classic and a whole lot romantic with a 2013 twist. This year we are going to see a more refined and understated look in wedding design, stripping back some of the details and making the day about the things that really matter. Using a pretty palette of pastels, blush pink and lavender tones with the palest aqua, and the most beautiful relaxed, rustic florals, and the whole look is simple and romantic. Floral motifs echo throughout the day, from the ruffles from the bride's beautiful shoes (how in love with these am I?!), on the plates and daintily decorating the sweetest naked cake.
Thursday, 11 October 2012
Autumn Elegance...
Fig, Light Plum, Antique Gold, Ivory & White
As we near the end of Summer, it seems to me that there are two schools of thought. Some people wouldn't love anything more than to hold onto Summer as long as they can - and then there are others, like myself, who more than welcome the change of season and everything that comes along with it. I think Fall has some of the prettiest palettes. And this one is no exception. Here lately I've really been attracted to shades of purple and I especially am loving this fig colour. It's such an intense colour and it really goes nicely with antique gold.
Berry kissed...
Berry, Lavender, Camel & White
Want to know the colour I'm secretly swooning over? That would most definitely be this pretty shade of purple! Vibrant, beautiful and absolutely striking, this colour just exudes elegance. Looking for a colour that will work for any season? I'm loving this shade for Spring, Summer, Fall and Winter. A gorgeous hue that mixes well with understated neutrals, berry really is very pretty. Wouldn't you agree? I'm absolutely loving this sweetheart chiffon bridesmaid dress and it's flattering style. Plus the texture is just fabulous if you ask me.
Oh, and no look could be complete without a few accessories. I'm loving how these tear-drop earrings pair so well with this gorgeous dress. Plus I just love how this woven clutch and that pair of heels coordinate so effortlessly. So what do you think? Are you a purple girl at heart? And would you consider using this colour in your wedding? Or even simpler, in your wardrobe?
Red hair... Wild & Sexy
Curly half up – half down wedding hairstyles give you the best of the both worlds. The updo at the front is sophisticated and formal, adds height at the crown, and works for all styles of bangs. Long flowing locks at the back feature romantic curls, showcase beautiful hair, and cascade sensually over the shoulders and collar bone. Check out these beautiful half up bridal hairstyle for red hair in ringlets accented by a white orchid.
This curly half up hairstyle is perfect for outdoor or beach weddings. Hair is secured at the front and gathered to achieve sophisticated height at the crown. A waterfall of curls or ringlets falling over the shoulders and down the back soften the updo, adding romantic tendrils. The curls look beautiful against skin revealed by a strapless wedding dress or blowing in the wind of your beach or outdoor wedding.
Auburn hair is a beautiful backdrop for the white orchid. Orchids are a wonderful choice for a wedding, representing love, luxury, beauty and strength. White flowers are used to mark new beginnings, so this colour is a natural choice for your wedding day. Select the colour and type of flower to complement your hair and work with your personal bridal style and wedding theme.
Monday, 8 October 2012
Lavender & Love
Lavender & love… what’s more romantic than a lavender infused wedding…? It’s such a dreamy, rustic notion and conjures up images of never ending summer days and hazy nights. Pretty and bohemian ~ inject some lavender & love into your day!
There are quite a few ways to incorporate a lavender colour palette into your wedding day, gorgeous with sage, whites & creams, rustic wood textures as well as lace or maybe even contrasted with mint or raspberry!
Lavender Lemonade
Our all-time favourite! This delightfully refreshing drink turns a pretty pink colour after you add the lavender, and it has continued to be something that festival goers look forward to every year. Our favourite culinary lavender variety to use is Hidtcote, although any culinary variety may be used.
Serve over ice in your favourite glasses, and garnish with fresh lime slices and lavender sprigs for extra pizzazz!!
- 6 lemons
- 1 cup organic cane sugar
- 6 cups cold water
- 1/4 cup fresh or 1 TBSP dried lavender buds
- Ice Cubes
- Lavender Springs and Lime Slices for garnish (optional)
- Juice the lemons to make 1 cup of juice. To extract the most juice, FIRMLY roll the lemons between your hand and the counter top before cutting in half and juicing. Place the lemon juice in a pitcher, and set aside.
- In a medium-sized saucepan, combine the sugar with 3 cups of the water. Over medium-high heat, simmer and stir the water until the sugar is completely dissolved.
- Stir in the lavender to the sugar water, cover, and remove from heat. Steep for 25-30 minutes.
- Strain the lavender mixture through a fine mesh strainer or cheesecloth, and discard the lavender buds. Pour lavender infusion into the pitcher with the lemon juice. Add the remaining 3 cups of water, and stir well.
- Pour into tall glasses half-filled with ice and garnish with fresh lavender sprigs and lime slices. (optional)
Wedding flowers & their meanings
Have you ever wondered what meanings or connotations your favourite blooms have?
Sweet pea
The sweat pea symbolises pleasure and bliss. Strangely bittersweet as a wedding flower, it represents leaving after having had a good time. An incredibly fragrant blossom, the sweet pea has a short shelf life once cut and must be handled very carefully to be used as a wedding flower, but will fill the room with its sweet scent.
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Sweet pea |
Anemone
Originally from the Greek word meaning “daughter of the wind”, Greek mythology says that the anemone grew from Aphrodite’s tears of mourning over the death of Adonis, which is why some sources say that the anemone indicates fading hope and abandonment. Some believe that when the anemone closes its petal, it indicates the coming of rain, while others think that the anemone is a lucky flower that protects against evil. Despite the darker side of its mythology, modern sources think that anemones stand for anticipation and excitement.
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Anemone |
Freesia
The freesia is an extremely popular fragrant flower, and it’s no wonder then that for many it has become the symbol of sweetness, friendship, innocent, thoughtfulness and trust. The Ballerina freesia is among the most popular of its varieties, with its delicate and elegant characteristics.
The freesia is also the official flower for a seventh wedding anniversary.
Freesia is funnel or goblet shaped flowers with 8 to 12 funnels per stem, and their leaves resemble with Iris flower. If you plan to do your own wedding flowers, do not forget to ask your provider how long to delivered Freesia. Freesia is not a successful garden plant for North American, but available on your local florist as a cut flower all year round. In a vase life, Freesias can last up from 10 to 14 days.
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Freesia |
Gardenia
The gardenia symbolizes purity and sweetness, indicates secret love, and conveys joy and is thought of as a way to let the receiver know that they are lovely. Many believe that the gardenia also represents hospitality, grace and secret love, and in 19th century England, the gardenia was worn on the lapels of men’s formal suits as a symbol of good luck.
While the gardenia has many wonderful qualities, one little known fact is that, if handled incorrectly, its petals will turn black.
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Gardenia |
Hydrangea
The hydrangea is a very soulful flower, which symbolizes heartfelt emotions. Some use it to convey gratitude for being understood, or to express friendship and devotion. Some more pessimistic flower experts believe that the hydrangea stands for frigidity and heartlessness, boastfulness or vanity. The hydrangea is the official fourth wedding anniversary flower.
As well as being a popular and beautiful flower, the hydrangea also carries medicinal purposes. Native Americans used the root as a detoxifier, while, according to alternative medicine, its bark is said to give relief for muscle sprains. This is on top of its supposed magical qualities – according to folklore, the hydrangea is used to break curses.
Hydrangea |
Lavender
The lavender flower has the most simple meaning, which is widely agreed upon by flower experts. When given as a present, lavender flowers convey purity, silence and luck, as well as devotion. Lavender is often used in wedding arrangements for its sweet aroma, which quickly fills any reception hall. It also lasts incredibly well and has enjoyed a recent comeback due to vintage and country-style wedding trends.
Peonies
The history of the peony is long and complicated. With the flower having been in recorded existence for thousands of years, the mythology and stories surrounding its origin is widely debated. Greek mythology in itself has several versions of events – one that the peony is named for Paeon, a physician to the gods, who was given the flower on by Apollo’s mother on Mount Olympus. Another says that the same physician was “saved” from death by being turned into a peony flower.
The peony has many meanings in different cultures and is both the floral symbol of China and the state flower of Indiana. Officially the flower of the twelfth wedding anniversary celebration, according to various sources, peonies represent bashfulness, compassion, riches, indignation, shame, romance, prosperity and honour. It’s no wonder that the peony is such a popular wedding flower. In its pink form, its softness makes it an incredibly sought after and expensive bloom, but it also symbolises a happy life and marriage, as well as good health.
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Peonies |
Ranunculus
Ranunculus represents radiant charm and attractiveness. ranunculus boasts brains as well as beauty, with its wide medicinal properties. According to various mythologies, a coyote was throwing his eyes in the air and catching them again, when they were stolen by an eagle. Ranunculus is said to have been created as a pair of new eyes for the coyote.
Presenting somebody with a bouquet of ranunculus says , “I am dazzled by your charms.”
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Ranunculus |
Stock
Stock is another symbol of happy life and contented existence, as well as lasting beauty, which makes it extremely appropriate for a wedding. It is also symbolic of promptness, so you organised brides out there should take note!
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Stock |
Such a fantastic post! Not only will you have beautiful wedding flowers on your day, you’ll also have that extra special dimension of knowing what each pretty blossom means too. So have any of these meanings influenced your decision on what wedding flowers you’ll choose?
xoxo
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